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20 Moments When We All Lie to Ourselves About Retirement

March 10, 2026 · Retirement Life

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the most common unexpected expense in retirement?

Healthcare and home maintenance tie for the top spot. Even with Medicare, out-of-pocket costs for prescriptions, dental care, and supplemental premiums surprise many retirees. Similarly, aging homes require significant upkeep; a new roof or HVAC system can easily disrupt a fixed-income budget.

How long does it typically take to adjust to retirement?

Most behavioral experts suggest it takes between one and three years to fully settle into a new retirement identity. The first year is often marked by a “honeymoon phase” followed by a period of disorientation, before finally establishing a new, sustainable daily routine.

Should my spouse and I retire at the exact same time?

Not necessarily. Staggered retirement can ease the financial and emotional transition. It allows one spouse to maintain employer-sponsored health insurance or steady income while the other begins exploring a post-career lifestyle. It also prevents the sudden shock of two people simultaneously trying to figure out how to spend their days together at home.

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